Many of us find difficulty in overlooking the faults of others. One of the ways we can overlook the faults of others is for us to know we have faults of our own. One who doesn’t recognize this is only kidding themselves. If one ponders and hold fast to the two hadith below they can be of help inshaa Allah. The Ulama has mentioned others things as well. Inshaa Allah this can be of some benefit and help.
“Of the excellence of one’s islam is that he leaves that which does not concern him” (Tirmidhi, Ahmad)
من حسن إسلأم المر ء تر كاْ ما لا يعنيه
“Blessed is he who is preoccupied with his defects rather than those of other people” (Al-Bazar)
طو بى لمن شغله عيبه عن عيوب النَاس
Inshaa Allah these are some benefit